P914:6, 82:2.1
The story of the evolution of marriage is simply the history of sex control
through the pressure of social, religious, and civil restrictions. Nature
hardly recognizes individuals; it takes no cognizance of so-called morals;
it is only and exclusively interested in the reproduction of the species.
Nature compellingly
insists on reproduction but
indifferently leaves the consequential
problems to be solved by society, thus creating an ever-present and major
problem for evolutionary mankind. This social conflict consists in the unending
war between basic instincts and evolving ethics.
P914:7, 82:2.2
Among the early races there was little or no regulation of the relations of
the sexes. Because of this sex license, no prostitution existed. Today, the
Pygmies and other backward groups have no marriage institution; a study of
these peoples reveals the simple mating customs followed by primitive races.
But all ancient peoples should always be studied and judged in the light of
the moral standards of the mores of their own times.
P915:1, 82:2.3
Free love, however, has never been in good standing above the scale of rank
savagery. The moment societal groups began to form, marriage codes and marital
restrictions began to develop. Mating has thus progressed through a multitude
of transitions from a state of almost complete sex license to the twentieth-century
standards of relatively complete sex restriction.
P915:2, 82:2.4
In the earliest stages of tribal development the mores and restrictive taboos
were very crude, but they did keep the sexes apart -- this favored quiet,
order, and industry -- and the long evolution of marriage and the home had
begun. The sex customs of dress, adornment, and religious practices had their
origin in these early taboos which defined the range of sex liberties and
thus eventually created concepts of vice, crime, and sin. But it was long
the practice to suspend all sex regulations on high festival days, especially
May Day. note
P915:3, 82:2.5
Women have always been subject to more restrictive taboos than men. The early
mores granted the same degree of sex liberty to unmarried women as to men,
but it has always been required of wives that they be faithful to their husbands.
Primitive marriage did not much curtail man's sex liberties, but it did render
further sex license taboo to the wife. Married women have always borne some
mark which set them apart as a class by themselves, such as
hairdress, clothing,
veil, seclusion, ornamentation, and rings.